For most people, the gap comes on day six of a rained-out vacation, or when they wake up next to a dead tranny Thai pirate hooker. For me, that gap comes every Sunday when I read the Washington Post's wedding announcements. I become this bitter little misanthrope who is bound and determined to shed this mortal coil in a Golden Girls-esque divorcee commune, if only so I don't ever have to read about myself in a wedding announcement.
I'm sure all these couples love one another madly, are wonderful friends, pay their taxes, and are good all-around folks. I'm just also not sure why they're so willing to present themselves as materialistic nitwits.
For your consideration, I offer last Sunday's fabulous couple. My eye twitched a little to discover that they signed a cocktail napkin exclusivity agreement at their first meeting (is that what I should have been doing all these years?). And the lucky young man spent their first date introducing her as "Mrs. Donnelly." But, hey, maybe it was love at first sight.
But then I remember love at first sight doesn't exist, because that's just infatuation. Infatuation is bells and flowers and chirping little birdies. It's candlelight and mythology and maybe a princess fantasy or two.
Love is far better and more mundane. Love is going to 7-11 at 3 a.m. for Alka-Seltzer, and not really minding, because your partner has a killer stomachache. Love is hearing the same story for the hundredth time, and being kind enough to laugh in all the right places. True-to-life love stories are often so boring that you fall asleep halfway through the telling. If Amy and Tripp have that, all the best to them.
Anyhoo, back to the delightful blessed joining of two souls. I was down with their wedding, Georgetown preppyset, tennis tournament-oriented as it was, until I got to the 32-MINUTE VIDEO TRIBUTE. Would any guest in their right mind want to sit through that? Wouldn't they rather, y'know, mingle with the friends and family they rarely see, wish the happy couple all the best, and maybe eat some food? No, I suppose not, when there are videotaped "luminaries" to observe.
So, last Sunday, hungover, in bed, and nibbling on plain tortillas, I was hit with the scariest conclusion of my life: that I'm not as nice a person as I should be. I'm snarky and bitter and have a pessimistic streak that pops up every Sunday, when I'm weak and vulnerable and my brain is sloshy from the previous night's excesses.
And then I hit the less-scary, but far more important conclusion: If I get married again, I'll just have cookout and some kegs. You're all invited! Burgers or dogs? How 'bout some relish? Can I get you another beer?
In the comments, tell me what section of the newspaper brings out your inner snarkbitch. Or, describe your behavior at my imaginary wedding. Bonus points for a hypothetical kegstand.
87 comments:
I will show everyone my tramp stamp (by lifting up the back of my dress) and demonstrate the bootie popping and body undulations I just learned in my stripping class.
i have always wanted to be white trash inappropriate and never let myself - this would by my big coming out.
Tina - *swoon* Will you be my maid of honor?
Doesn't every normal person snark at those announcements? Reading that link almost made me throw up my Cheerios.
If I ever find myself at a wedding featuring Fox News...it'll be like the prom scene in Carrie. Post pig-blood.
i love your wedding plan. if i ever change my mind and go the wedding route, i totally want to get our friends drunk and feed them tons of food.
really, it's the people like those in that announcement who ruined the idea of weddings for me. i think marriage, as in "the time after the wedding" can be a lovely thing (if both people involved are, you know, thoughtful and loving and meant to be together,) but weddings are, by and large, retarded.
do not get me started on registries.
I for one think it's appalling how much even average-income folks will spend on what's basically a one day party and would love to see a new tradition of backyard cookouts and cheap, fun weddings instead. After all, when the wedding's over, what you're left with isn't the memories of the right flowers or who had the vegetarian option--you're left with what is hopefully a lasting marriage.
Fearless - I'm far from normal, but, yes, I TOTALLY snark on wedding announcements.
kelsi - So you won't get me the Super-Extra-Double-Large Rice Marinader Crockery Set that I registered for? It's only $300!
Brando - A lot of the time, unfortunately, the families pressure the couple into having a big showoff-y wedding. Lucky for me, my parents are broke-ass hippies who wouldn't dream of it.
Also, Skye, yes, you'd still have to be my maid of honor (sorry Tina!), but this time I wouldn't make you wear a dress. It's too hard to have a squirt gun Capture the Flag game in a dress.
My wedding (reception at RFD of all places) was essentially that: getting my friends fed and drunk and dancing. I've always hated wedding announcements for some reason, what's the point?
I snark at the fashion sections where they always take pictures of perfectly tall and skinny 22 year olds wearing skinny jeans and a scarf with a pop of color!
I will attend your wedding and consume many burgers, hotdogs and beers. However, I will do all of these things from the comforts of MAH TRUK, which I will not set foot out of at any point during the festivities. It'll be like Saturday night at Sonic, only with old people doing the electric slide.
Also, no need for a DJ or sound system 'cuz I rock some serious aftermarket Polks in my side doors. You're welcome.
Welcome to the snark side. Everyone here is a lot happier than you might think.
Jo - Yeah, it's hard to look bad when you're skinny and 22! I don't know why the Post basically profiles the same person over and over.
Hammer - And I bet you'll give me a shotgun as a wedding gift. Then nod knowingly and hand me an EPT kit.
Fiery - Oh, I've always been snarky...I'm just an optimist as well, for extra confusion.
Weird enough, I've actually thought about my wedding dance earlier this year. Two words: Jai Ho.
Yeah that article manages to creep me out a little more each time I read it. At first you're like "aww, love at first sight," and then it's all "Stepford Wives and country clubs, we drink G&Ts to drown our feelings."
That said, perhaps they are of the same crazy, if you know what I mean.
AAnyways, I do love your BBQ idea, and Dmbosstone's Jai Ho. That is awesome. You've gotta have some dancing. Karaoke?
Dmbosstone - Will you marry me?
Brett - Karaoke? Totally. Instead of toasts, we'll have serenades. You're singing "Tiny Dancer."
Maybe their flavors of crazy mix well?
This is exactly why I can't read those things -- I just get annoyed. Your idea of a post-wedding party sounds WAY better.
At your wedding I promise to sit in the back and hit the flask to avoid any possibility of lightning...oh, wait a minute, did that already.
At your next wedding I will color commentary over the PA: "Everyone, quick! The best man the one of the bridesmaids have snuck off to the tool shed behind the barbeque. Let's all be ready to cheer them when they come out."
Zan - Wear pants, girl, because you're doing the first kegstand!
Foggy - Ah, yes, nothing boosts the confidence like seeing two college buddies sitting in the back of the church on the off chance the bride is struck by lightning.
And the color commentary would be way funnier if you just made it all up.
Just read the wedding announcement and I'm at a loss for words. In fact, I can only come up with letters: WTF?!?
First the picture: Are you allowed to make fun of brides? Is that legal?
1789 for a first date? Are you freaking kidding me? A little over the top, don't ya think? Isn't that the place you go to propose? This "romance is doomed to failure. We should set up a google alert so we're sure to catch their divorce announcement in the legal section.
I think I've just thrown up a lot in my mouth. Please, if you ever see me in a situation like this, come to my house and do me a favor: Shoot me in the head.
At your wedding, I will get up and dance to the trashy hit "Save a horse, ride a cowboy". Complete with hooting and imaginary lassoing.
Foggy - Multiple fork restaurants on a first date: High Risk Manuever.
Lacochran - And you've just landed yourself a bridesmaid slot! I was thinking the entire wedding party could perform that, in cowgirl outfits.
I'll settle for flower girl - but only if I can ditch the dress and wear booty shorts a tube top and cowboy boots
Shannon - can I change it to "hold me closer Tony Danza?"
Tina - Oh, that's the mandatory uniform for everyone! And the catering staff will be dudes in Hooters uniforms.
Brett - I would expect nothing less.
Whoa, I thought the Tony Danza cover was my version! And guys in Hooters uniforms? That sound you heard was my brain shuddering.
Brando - You and Brett are performing a duet. Hey, that rhymed!
The Datelab pisses me off pretty good. The constant stream of "He/She isn't perfect" or the Post setting up people with person who has a major turnoff trait is just anger inducing.
If invited to your wedding, I promise to show up with bbq ribs, a half a sixer of high life, and some really ugly croc flipflops.
For the record: I proposed at 1789. In retrospect, $10000 in divorce fees later, probably should have waited a little longer....
I would be the one at you wedding who would still be there the next morning sleeping under some tables somewhere. Dressed or wrapped in a table cloth? Hard to say...
bh - Oh, DateLab drives me up the wall, too! Seriously - you're letting a newspaper set you up, which is pretty far from how most people meet the loves of their lives. Relax and have fun!
Also, please, PLEASE wear white jorts to my imaginary wedding.
Heather - This is assuming we have any furniture at all, of course.
This kind of crap is exactly why I want to go to the beach with my family, get married in the morning, go stuff ourselves full of brunch and mimosas and then go lay around by the water all day. I'm not even trying to spend all kinds of money and have stress and shit. I think I'll make sure at least 2 guests are ordained just in case.
I'm totally snarky about massive wedding plans - excellent, given that my cousin just got engaged.
As for your wedding? I'll probably sleep with the best man. And the maid of honor. At the same time. And I'll be the one standing on the table yelling at everyone that WE'RE DOING SHOTS!!!
AARGGGH, I read the announcement and it is so corny it made me gag. Seriously.
Like you, I decided several years back that if I ever get married again, it would probably be in a park, with a BBQ, and people riding bikes and wearing jeans or spandex.
And, last but not least, I do think you are a very nice person! being corny and gagging at corny-ness should never make you a bad person, RIGHT?
I used to want the big, fancy wedding with the favors and the floating candles and flower arrangements and whatnot. Now, I would prefer to take the money I'd spend on all that fluff, jet to Vegas with my honey and anyone else who wanted to come. Hit up the chapel, a buffet for the reception, and on to the slots. done and done. I swear I don't have a gambling problem.
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