tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post6517856973692879777..comments2024-03-27T09:05:25.928+00:00Comments on Disaffected Scanner Jockey: Calling All Metro Etiquette VigilantesShannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16089796721473561446noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-55748175408459212852010-03-18T10:16:37.769+00:002010-03-18T10:16:37.769+00:00Good post and this mail helped me alot in my colle...Good post and this mail helped me alot in my college assignement. 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On the other hand, I said "excuse me" too softly to a woman holding a pole by the handicapped seats as I passed her to go stand in the middle of the row -- as you're supposed to do. She didn't hear me and yelled at me for not saying excuse me. I was so discombobulated that I didn't think of the retort until much later. (Well, if you were standing in the middle of the aisle instead of near the door, I wouldn't have had to brush by you.)<BR/><BR/>So there can be unfair vigilantism.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-34155350093176368992008-01-18T22:20:00.000+00:002008-01-18T22:20:00.000+00:00People are generally decent folks. Most every "rud...People are generally decent folks. <BR/><BR/>Most every "rudeness" problem on Metro comes from our ever increasingly self-absorbed culture.<BR/><BR/>We're all too distracted about our own stuff to realize or care about others around us.<BR/><BR/>My go-to strategy has always been and strong "Excuse me" with a smile. <BR/><BR/>If the person doesn't move, I do.Ms☆Gohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09976124247199958535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-21024500402719315122008-01-18T22:01:00.000+00:002008-01-18T22:01:00.000+00:00Lots of things annoy me about Metro, but the one t...Lots of things annoy me about Metro, but the one that almost never fails to irritate the hell out of me, is when it's rush hour, and some person walking ahead of me suddenly just stops in the middle of the crowd, causing people to try their best to avoid bumping into each other. <BR/><BR/>I also saw a guy the other day on the platform wearing headphones, loudly rhyming along to his profanity-laced hip hop...And messing up the words at that! All I could think was, not only is this man obnoxious, but HE DOESN'T EVEN KNOW THE WORDS TO THE SONG THAT HE'S SINGING!! <BR/><BR/>I didn't bother to approach him. I just got on a separate car.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-53180881064903341862008-01-18T18:17:00.000+00:002008-01-18T18:17:00.000+00:00Poor me that I have to deal with oh-so-brave anony...Poor me that I have to deal with oh-so-brave anonymous human beings that post f-bombs and insults on my blog.<BR/><BR/>Eh, I guess it comes with the territory.<BR/><BR/>Actually, I was the roommate who took down the passive-aggressive Post-its and asked that folks talk things out and not be so nitpicky. The point of the original post was that folks nicely request that their fellow passengers not act like jerks vs. sit there and seethe (the passive aggressive "Post-it" method).<BR/><BR/>I don't think there's anything wrong with hoping that even city folks develop some basic manners. But thanks for reading and commenting!Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16089796721473561446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-74098648907808720762008-01-18T05:35:00.000+00:002008-01-18T05:35:00.000+00:00poor thing that you had to be bothered by other hu...poor thing that you had to be bothered by other human beings in a public space. let me guess... you were the type of roommate that left post-it notes in every fucking place in the house... "please please clean the crumbs from the toaster when you toast bread. they dont clean themselves!" <BR/><BR/>part hippie... rightAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-61131406741871238432008-01-17T16:12:00.000+00:002008-01-17T16:12:00.000+00:00I dread riding Metro. The rudeness on it never cea...I dread riding Metro. The rudeness on it never ceases to amaze me. Listening to gangsta rap at 8 in the morning annoys the mess out of me, people who won't move when I kindly say "excuse me" get to me, and the throngs of rowdy kids that board the train with "n***a," "bitch," and other expletives give me a headache.<BR/><BR/>Another Metro offense: Standing next to a seat as opposed to sitting in it, blocking the way for someone who would actually want to, you know, <I>sit down</I>.Golden Silencehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17820962013206868422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-8135402082217470902008-01-17T15:50:00.000+00:002008-01-17T15:50:00.000+00:00AM, the "could you please stand up" is for when yo...AM, the "could you please stand up" is for when you're in the interior seat, you say "excuse me, this is my stop," and the person daintily twists their legs to one side and basically demands that you clamber over them.Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16089796721473561446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-32777669600745922032008-01-17T15:42:00.000+00:002008-01-17T15:42:00.000+00:00Honestly, just saying "excuse me" would make me ha...Honestly, just saying "excuse me" would make me happy. I hate it when the person in the interior seat just stares at you instead of saying something. I always stand up to let people out but I will pretend not to notice until I hear an "excuse me." Does that make me bitchy? Oh well, then I'm bitchy.AMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13039516231351178085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-52259900427851430842008-01-17T15:32:00.000+00:002008-01-17T15:32:00.000+00:00nice job, agent Vigilante! Quasi-related, a guy w...nice job, agent Vigilante! Quasi-related, a guy was trying to sit down in the interior seat and the woman sitting in the aisle seat asked him what was his stop so she could determine if she should move in or he should get the interior seat. He said "none of your business" and just stood there waiting for her to move. I wanted to kick him for being such an ass. <BR/><BR/>Then there was the obnoxious gum chewing guy and the older gentleman who practically pushed his way in front of me to get on the train first. Can't I just throw things at them?carrie mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11833667617864560470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-57567342804341592832008-01-17T14:47:00.000+00:002008-01-17T14:47:00.000+00:00Anon, if more people speak up, maybe your requests...Anon, if more people speak up, maybe your requests will get heard. Once it becomes the norm to call people on rude behavior, perhaps we will see less of it.<BR/><BR/>Ah, Transit Utopia!Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16089796721473561446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-30554392644168567742008-01-17T02:53:00.000+00:002008-01-17T02:53:00.000+00:00count me in, I can stand people who are so oblivi...count me in, I can stand people who are so oblivious to what is going on around you. 1. If i can hear ur music over my music, turn it the hell down. 2. There will be plenty of time to get off the train when you get to your station, move away from the damn door cause if you dont my shoulder is sure to "accidentally" hit you. 3.If I am waiting on the platform for the train please do not come stand directly in front of me, cause I just might push you in front of the train.Domo El Mono Locohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04734191777195372914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-82972139189241058302008-01-17T01:57:00.000+00:002008-01-17T01:57:00.000+00:00Just discovered your blog, love this post. But I ...Just discovered your blog, love this post. But I am ALWAYS the person at Farragut North shouting "Please move in people! There's tons of room at the center!" and no matter HOW nicely I say it I always get glares and even rude comments in return! Why?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-54852579859947562202008-01-16T19:35:00.000+00:002008-01-16T19:35:00.000+00:00Do I need a Passive Agressive Squad, to fight the ...Do I need a Passive Agressive Squad, to fight the truly intractably rude people?Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16089796721473561446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-4271875288466753922008-01-16T19:34:00.000+00:002008-01-16T19:34:00.000+00:00I actually have my own passive-aggressive equivale...I actually have my own passive-aggressive equivalents for two of your suggested phrases:<BR/><BR/>(when blocking the door) "That's really a great spot there, why don't you just stay there?"<BR/><BR/>(when blocking the left side of an escalator) "MOVE!"<BR/><BR/>Works every time.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-85759791384330630412008-01-16T19:25:00.000+00:002008-01-16T19:25:00.000+00:00I prefer the passive-aggressive approach. For ins...I prefer the passive-aggressive approach. For instance, when someone is leaning on the pole, I grab hold of the pole and point my knuckles into the person's body.Kristen S.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13797005752143223899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-56732371771813415612008-01-16T18:46:00.000+00:002008-01-16T18:46:00.000+00:00Welcome to the team, dcnative!Actually, lemmonex, ...Welcome to the team, dcnative!<BR/><BR/>Actually, lemmonex, that's EXACTLY how you should have phrased it.Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16089796721473561446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-89338007680766997042008-01-16T18:40:00.000+00:002008-01-16T18:40:00.000+00:00Yesterday, the man sitting next to me on the metro...Yesterday, the man sitting next to me on the metro took out his blood sugar kit, opened the little needle, and proceeded to test his glucose level. I was stunned. I wanted to say something, but honestly, didn't even know how to phrase it. "Could you please not extract bodily fluid on the train? M'Kay?"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-48921216310023444002008-01-16T17:56:00.000+00:002008-01-16T17:56:00.000+00:00count me in!count me in!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-86135236360706821512008-01-16T17:06:00.000+00:002008-01-16T17:06:00.000+00:00But Blondie, think of how much fun you'd have on t...But Blondie, think of how much fun you'd have on the Metro! "Accidental" touching from strangers alone would make it worth the trip!Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16089796721473561446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-45735335670077256252008-01-16T17:04:00.000+00:002008-01-16T17:04:00.000+00:00i momentarily thought about riding the metro...whe...i momentarily thought about riding the metro...when i heard about "no pants day" ...but..umm no.. i just dont like people enough... and well..it doesnt go where i go.. but whatever....you get the point.. <BR/>xoxoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com