tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post1827654883607470744..comments2024-03-27T09:05:25.928+00:00Comments on Disaffected Scanner Jockey: Incompetent Advice: Is this Guy for Real?Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16089796721473561446noreply@blogger.comBlogger46125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-22075083704734840492008-10-06T20:50:00.000+01:002008-10-06T20:50:00.000+01:00He doesn't even deserve a response. Block him imm...He doesn't even deserve a response. Block him immediately. He's that guy who will go on a shooting rampage in your office. Disappear forever.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-63327137722282866712008-10-06T14:15:00.000+01:002008-10-06T14:15:00.000+01:00Kassy - Agreed. I think there's a natural human im...Kassy - Agreed. I think there's a natural human impulse to make excuses for people...but there's no excuse for badgering Charlotte or being creepy.<BR/><BR/>Michael - Actually, I killed Lem over the weekend. YOU ARE MINE.Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16089796721473561446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-1641552137002146212008-10-05T20:08:00.000+01:002008-10-05T20:08:00.000+01:00Oh, Lem, honey, I adore only you!I'm a man. I'm y...Oh, Lem, honey, I adore only you!<BR/><BR/>I'm a man. I'm your man. You do trust me, don't you, sweetheart?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-73361091769155366572008-10-04T09:44:00.000+01:002008-10-04T09:44:00.000+01:00I agree with everyone and I don't think he was att...I agree with everyone and I don't think he was attempting sarcasm or humor at ALL...I think he was straight up trying to make you feel like shit in the hopes that maybe you would think that you were overreacting and send him more pictures!<BR/><BR/>Exactly like Shannon said--I was fortunately born with all the tools the Gift of Fear teaches and I spotted red flags the minute he asked for a SPECIFIC pictures of flip flops. Uh...I will reinstate...Ewie. <BR/><BR/>You have SEVEN pictures up there and he needs more? <BR/><BR/>Tell him to sign up for a porn site not a dating site. ICK galore.KassyKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05859514828888662789noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-92059972624146488592008-10-03T20:53:00.000+01:002008-10-03T20:53:00.000+01:00Ninja, I'll take Door #3. The email isn't just cre...Ninja, I'll take Door #3. The email isn't just creepy, it's overbearing and rude. Prime example: "The fact that you keep avoiding it makes me want to keep asking." <BR/><BR/>I'm divorced, but that doesn't mean I go around making ridiculous demands of people I've never met.Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16089796721473561446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-13412718703251032922008-10-03T20:47:00.001+01:002008-10-03T20:47:00.001+01:00NOT sticking up for this guy, just interpreting. 1...NOT sticking up for this guy, just interpreting. <BR/><BR/>1) the guy was probably trying to be funny by (repeatedly) demanding feet pics. the only problem with the joke is that it's not funny.<BR/><BR/>2) the guy is divorced so he probably doesn't know (or has forgotten) what's socially acceptable and what's creepy. (sending pics of your kids if you don't know the person is creepy and manipulative)<BR/><BR/>3) or...the guy has a foot fetish.HomeImprovementNinjahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01134409822023878387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-53775283851351951832008-10-03T20:47:00.000+01:002008-10-03T20:47:00.000+01:00NOT sticking up for this guy, just interpreting. 1...NOT sticking up for this guy, just interpreting. <BR/><BR/>1) the guy was probably trying to be funny by (repeatedly) demanding feet pics. the only problem with the joke is that it's not funny.<BR/><BR/>2) the guy is divorced so he probably doesn't know (or has forgotten) what's socially acceptable and what's creepy. (sending pics of your kids if you don't know the person is creepy and manipulative)<BR/><BR/>3) or...the guy has a foot fetish.HomeImprovementNinjahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01134409822023878387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-46975711925406513982008-10-03T19:48:00.001+01:002008-10-03T19:48:00.001+01:00Justin - Just because I can't drive stick doesn't ...Justin - Just because I can't drive stick doesn't mean I can't drive your car. Vroom!Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16089796721473561446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-20543447349257889732008-10-03T19:48:00.000+01:002008-10-03T19:48:00.000+01:00Ellie - the ideal woman wears tank tops and flops ...Ellie - the ideal woman wears tank tops and flops year-round.<BR/><BR/>Charlotte - I'm fine. Just hanging out, scratching my sixth finger with my prehensile tail.Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16089796721473561446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-19219800949906072802008-10-03T19:47:00.000+01:002008-10-03T19:47:00.000+01:00Just because we broke up doesn't mean we can't go ...Just because we broke up doesn't mean we can't go out anymore.Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07483390216311858204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-3447400541053131072008-10-03T19:40:00.000+01:002008-10-03T19:40:00.000+01:00Despite the polite "dear john(ny)" email I sent la...Despite the polite "dear john(ny)" email I sent last night, I received a text message from him today anyway. "hey girl, how are ya." <BR/><BR/>Y'all were right - he is a creep.<BR/>Thanks everyone, again, for the sound advice AND for some good laughs.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-77490872259790121572008-10-03T19:34:00.000+01:002008-10-03T19:34:00.000+01:00HAHAHAHAHAH!I can't stop laughing at this whole en...HAHAHAHAHAH!I can't stop laughing at this whole entire thing. What a loser..how lame. Why didn't he just wait to see you in person? He realized summer was over and you may have movedon to fall attire?The comments are cracking me up.<BR/>Seriously, this reminds me of the guy who requested "more boob" shots. HAHAHA! As if that even requires a response.<BR/>I'm glad you aren't going on the date, but I'm dying to know how he will react!Elliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09774900926502097406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-30280394366540762782008-10-03T18:49:00.000+01:002008-10-03T18:49:00.000+01:00bh - Personally, I've asked Charlotte to send me a...bh - Personally, I've asked Charlotte to send me a photo of herself in a naughty nurse outfit and clown shoes.<BR/><BR/>Lemmonex - I guess we'll just have to mudwrestle.Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16089796721473561446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-73357839045314613202008-10-03T18:41:00.000+01:002008-10-03T18:41:00.000+01:00Michael! How could you?!Good for canceling, CH. ...Michael! How could you?!<BR/><BR/>Good for canceling, CH. One of my favorite past times is ignoring my instincts...it never really goes well.Lemmonexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13323066264528575027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-25214010696779225972008-10-03T18:32:00.000+01:002008-10-03T18:32:00.000+01:00I'm working under a strict one girlfriend at a tim...I'm working under a strict one girlfriend at a time rule. I know that makes me a prude, but it's in everyone's best interest. Trust me.<BR/><BR/>Plus, charlotte would have to send me photos of all her turtlenecks. I'm a real stickler.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-27032591227150202292008-10-03T17:56:00.000+01:002008-10-03T17:56:00.000+01:00Michael - I wouldn't worry about it. Lemmonex and ...Michael - I wouldn't worry about it. Lemmonex and I are actually the same person.<BR/><BR/>Lacochran - Charlotte better run run, run awaaaaaayyyyy....oh oh oh....<BR/><BR/>Ryane - Actually, he sleeps with an Abercrombie catalog under his pillow. And there's an assortment of chopped-up Abercrombie models under the bed.<BR/><BR/>This "Johnny" person is the best thing to ever happen on a Friday.Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16089796721473561446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-55299006377399872362008-10-03T17:51:00.000+01:002008-10-03T17:51:00.000+01:00Yeah, don't go on that date, or any date w/someone...Yeah, don't go on that date, or any date w/someone who obviously has so many issues. I agree w/Shannon; you haven't even gone on the date yet and he's giving you the third degree? It's not like you didn't have photos for him to see. If he really wants pics of flip-flops and tank tops, tell him to get an Abercrombie catalog and get over it.Ryanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06535463704571035144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-8832123998266773342008-10-03T17:43:00.001+01:002008-10-03T17:43:00.001+01:00Amen to all of the above! Who needs that mishugas...Amen to all of the above! Who needs that mishugas? Let him be somebody else's psychokiller. (Quest que cest... fafafafafafafafa...)lacochranhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12122022168616822147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-79319902995990250402008-10-03T17:43:00.000+01:002008-10-03T17:43:00.000+01:00Shit. She reads this???Uh...Lem, honey, hi! It's...<I>Shit. She reads this???</I><BR/><BR/>Uh...Lem, honey, hi! It's always been you, baby! The other women mean nothing to me. Nothing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-4460596497817422052008-10-03T17:26:00.000+01:002008-10-03T17:26:00.000+01:00Justin - There's nothing worse than a nut with bad...Justin - There's nothing worse than a nut with bad manners.<BR/><BR/>Carrie - I wanna play the bass.<BR/>The fish, not the instrument.<BR/><BR/>Liv - Everybody loves your six fingers!<BR/><BR/>Michael - Good advice. And watch it, you'll make Lemmonex jealous.Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16089796721473561446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-10400827641897400332008-10-03T17:23:00.000+01:002008-10-03T17:23:00.000+01:00Well, as one of the billions of men who will not b...Well, as one of the billions of men who will not be dating Charlotte (because crossing rivers is not safe and because Shannon is my true love), I can safely comment here:<BR/><BR/>Drop this "opportunity" immediately. He is a giant red flag all by himself, and he's waving it IN YOUR FACE. Heed it. You will thank me soon--and often. You write in complete, grammatically correct sentences, with subjects and verbs agreeing with one another. This means you will find a really sweet, educated, very kind guy who (a) loves good grammar and (b) is willing to wait for the tank top money shot until, oh, about the third hour of the first date (getting beyond my personal best by at least two hours).<BR/><BR/>Seriously, you'll do fine. Keep a sense of humor and the good ones will find you. And remember: it's only a man, not a career.<BR/><BR/>Take care and let us hear from you.<BR/><BR/>M.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-12870996536546533102008-10-03T17:20:00.000+01:002008-10-03T17:20:00.000+01:00It's been said to death, but let me concur... he s...It's been said to death, but let me concur... he sounds crazy and a jerk. He's probably projecting the whole "crazy people out there" thing onto you, because he knows he is.<BR/><BR/>I vote you tell him, don't worry baby, you'll love my 6 fingers after you see them in action... WINKrachaelgkinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18002691394373545956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-21589945372509384312008-10-03T17:11:00.000+01:002008-10-03T17:11:00.000+01:00good for you, charlotte! you did the right thing b...good for you, charlotte! you did the right thing by not engaging him. Tina said it perfectly. The photo would have been funny, but it might only serve to make him creepier b/c he'll think he's valid in his eau d'freakshow since someone mocked him. <BR/><BR/>shannon - that IS a rather good blog band name. if it's like rock band, I call the drums!Carrie Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05798918478235074266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-7489365340346661652008-10-03T17:04:00.000+01:002008-10-03T17:04:00.000+01:00He is definetly hiding something - this makes me s...He is definetly hiding something - this makes me so glad I closed out all dating interweb sites.<BR/><BR/>Glad Charlotte cancelled.....Capitol Hill 20210https://www.blogger.com/profile/14728522554591134160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4056861.post-81579565760045945062008-10-03T16:56:00.000+01:002008-10-03T16:56:00.000+01:00Nothing left to be said, you nailed it perfectly. ...Nothing left to be said, you nailed it perfectly. Guy sounds like a nut. It makes me think something else is wrong, too.Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07483390216311858204noreply@blogger.com